PsycHacks Episode 599: She who cries wolf (is she seeing clearly?
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Feb 23, 2026 A look at why women initiate most divorces and whether early detection of relationship problems is an advantage. A discussion of sensitivity, neuroticism, and how heightened threat detection can create false positives. An exploration of the interpersonal costs when frequent alarms erode trust and credibility.
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Sensitivity Alone Doesn’t Explain Divorce Rates
- Women may detect relationship problems earlier due to greater emotional sensitivity and threat detection bias.
- Orion Taraban argues this sensitivity explains only part of higher female divorce initiation, with economics and mimetic desires also important.
Evolutionary Bias Favors Seeing Wolves Everywhere
- Humans favor false positives in threat detection because survival rewards erring on the side of caution.
- Taraban links this evolutionary bias to higher female neuroticism, meaning more frequent false alarms about relationship threats.
Neurosis Turns False Alarms Into Real Harm
- Taraban defines neurosis as believing fake problems are real, connecting it directly to false positives.
- He notes women score higher on neuroticism, which raises anxiety/depression and misapplied resources toward non-problems.
