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How Trauma Rewires Desire (Katie Simon)

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Sep 25, 2025
Katie Simon, a sexuality journalist and author of 'Tell Me What You Like', explores paths to healing after sexual assault. She discusses the essential role of listening to one's body as a form of self-preservation and addresses the lack of trauma-informed sex education. Katie shares her personal journey, debunks myths about survivor sexuality, and emphasizes the impact of community support. She also highlights how storytelling can empower survivors and discusses the therapeutic potential of BDSM practices.
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ADVICE

Avoid Graphic Detail Unless Needed

  • Avoid graphic 'trauma porn' when telling survivor stories unless details are necessary for context.
  • Focus reporting on healing journeys and practical takeaways to reduce re-traumatization.
INSIGHT

Stories Create Disclosure Scripts

  • Stories function as touchpoints that survivors can point to when disclosing to partners or friends.
  • Real narratives help normalize experiences and guide disclosure strategies.
INSIGHT

Trauma Reappears Across Life

  • Trauma persists and can re-emerge when survivors try new experiences or face life changes.
  • Healing is ongoing growth, not a one-time cure you 'reach' and keep forever.
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