Psychology In Seattle Podcast Dating Advice #2 (2020 Rerun)
Feb 3, 2026
A rapid-fire Q&A on dating topics from asexuality and dating with disabilities to navigating long-distance and pandemic limits. Discussions tackle ghosting, unrealistic romance ideals, cultural pressures, and single parent dating. Also covers grief after breakups, repairing trust, attachment patterns, and managing needs versus control.
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Dating Is Risky But Moment-Rich
- Adjust expectations: dating involves many failures and short-lived connections before finding long-term fit.
- Live in the moment on dates and accept risk as part of seeking a lasting relationship.
Grieve Rather Than Rush 'Getting Over'
- Don’t aim to 'get over' heartbreak; grieve and meet the underlying need for compassion and connection.
- Use self-compassion and supportive relationships to process loss rather than suppressing painful feelings.
Create A Village Before Introducing Dates
- Single parents should build a 'village' of caregivers to allow dating and reduce strain.
- Only introduce children to a partner when you believe the relationship is likely to last and when it's safe for the kids.