The School of Greatness Dating Is Hard: Why Forgiveness Isn’t Always The Answer w/Lori Gottlieb EP 1190
Nov 17, 2021
Lori Gottlieb, a psychotherapist and bestselling author, dives into the complexities of modern dating and relationships. She highlights why love is harder to find today and sheds light on unhealthy patterns stemming from childhood. The discussion reveals the emotional turmoil behind infidelity and the importance of understanding narcissism. Lori questions the necessity of forgiveness for healing and emphasizes genuine emotional processing. She offers insights on nurturing healthier relationship dynamics, underscoring the role of self-reflection and open communication.
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Narcissistic Traits
- Narcissists can be charming but lack empathy, toggling between warmth and cruelty.
- They wound easily and prioritize their own needs above their partner's.
The Narcissist's Choice
- Narcissists often choose partners similar to their non-narcissistic parent.
- They then adopt the narcissistic parent's traits, seeking a connection they lacked.
Narcissists in Therapy
- People with narcissistic traits rarely seek therapy independently.
- They may attend couples therapy if their partner insists, often blaming others for problems.
