Transformation Church Drunk In Love // Relationship Goals: In Real Life (Part 2) // Michael Todd
Feb 22, 2026
They unpack how culture sells a deceptive, euphoric version of love that clouds judgment. A drunk-goggles demonstration shows how emotional intoxication distorts choices. The message centers on becoming sober in mind and soul to form stable, God-centered connections. They outline four foundational needs—seen, safe, soothed, secure—and urge starting personal restoration before seeking healthy relationships.
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Prepare Yourself Before Seeking A Partner
- Do the personal work God gives you before seeking a partner; start with presence, place, provision, personality, purpose, and parameters.
- Todd emphasizes Adam had purpose before Eve and warns singles not to delay living purpose.
Onstage Diamond Test Reveals Real Versus Fake
- Michael Todd tested congregants' engagement rings on stage to illustrate how things seem real until tested.
- He used a diamond tester and celebrated when a ring registered real, linking the demo to relationship authenticity.
Be Willing To Pay Relationship Costs
- Expect healthy relationships to cost you pride, going first, and time.
- Todd gives examples: apologizing first, making time for conversations, and prioritizing family over distraction.