This Is Uncomfortable What it costs to pass down a language
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Jan 29, 2026 Eamon Ismail, journalist and author of Becoming Baba, walks through his family budget and the decision to send his children to Islamic school to preserve Arabic. He discusses the tuition trade-offs, household money roles, and the cultural urgency behind passing down language. Short, candid, and focused on what the choice costs and why it matters.
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Childhood School Shaped Cultural Ties
- Eamon describes growing up attending a full-time Islamic school and summer trips to Egypt to learn Arabic.
- He connects those childhood experiences to his urgent desire to give his own kids the same linguistic and cultural tether.
Language Equals Family Connection
- Eamon realized language links children to family and heritage beyond religion.
- He felt alarmed when his kids couldn't respond to his Egyptian aunt on speakerphone.
Cut Discretionary Spending To Afford Priorities
- Eamon tracks his monthly finances closely and plans budget cuts to afford Islamic school.
- He identifies groceries, eating out, and discretionary shopping as areas to reduce to free up $1,200/month.
