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I’m Studying BDSM for the Next 7 Days (In-Person) — And it Feels Edgy

Feb 8, 2026
A personal update about preparing for a seven-day in-person BDSM intensive in the Dominican Republic. Topics include DOM/sub dynamics, scene design, psychological and humiliation play, pain, and consensual non-consent. Discussion of a tantra-infused approach that connects play to energetic movement and chakras. Reflections on feeling edgy and why now is the time to study these practices.
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ANECDOTE

Arriving Early To Ground Before Retreat

  • Taylor Johnson describes arriving early in the Dominican Republic to settle his nervous system before a BDSM retreat.
  • He admits feeling 90% excited and 10% nervous about what he'll experience.
INSIGHT

BDSM Meets Energetics

  • The retreat blends technical BDSM topics with energetic and tantric framing.
  • This shows practitioners often pair physical techniques with somatic or energetic frameworks.
ANECDOTE

Course Covers High-Intensity Topics

  • Taylor lists provocative topics the course will cover like humiliation, pain training, and consensual non-consent.
  • He highlights the curriculum will include DOM/sub dynamics, scene design, and ownership dynamics.
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