104 - Why Relationships Fail and How to Get Them Right with Tymothy Roy

Why do so many relationships fail?

Why do so many settle for a relationship that does not truly make them happy?

What if the key to a thriving relationship isn't only about finding the perfect partner, but becoming the right person?

Today I am back with Tym, the man by my side, to talk about all the ways to get relationship right and to understand what is causing them to break down.

Tym shares his "Relationship is Everything" framework, revealing how most people unknowingly sabotage their connections through misunderstood needs, unexamined expectations, and the relentless pursuit of being understood rather than understanding.

From the engineered breakdown of modern relationships to practical tools for building unshakeable bonds, this conversation offers key to finding the ease, flow, and fulfillment you've been seeking.

Whether you're single, dating, or decades into a partnership, this episode will fundamentally shift how you approach every relationship in your life. But willingness is key:)

4:00 - Introduction to Tymothy Roy and the episode topic

4:48 - Sascha and Tym's 20-year relationship journey

5:30 - How Tym became a student of relationships

8:19 - Why people are being trained to fail in relationships

10:00 - The shift from "getting" to "giving" in relationships

12:37 - Understanding the masculine and feminine dance

13:45 - The problem with expectations in relationships

17:20 - How to be a "mind reader" through presence

20:36 - Misunderstanding needs vs. wants

23:03 - The six human needs: certainty, uncertainty, significance, love/connection, growth, and contribution

28:03 - Why people settle for connection through commiserating

30:10 - The importance of seeking to understand vs. being understood

33:20 - Why relationships should be the priority over children

35:45 - Following the money: who benefits from broken relationships?

42:21 - The masculine and feminine response to feeling unsafe

46:08 - "I'm not upset for the reason I think"

50:00 - The danger of identity attachment

54:00 - Perception vs. perspective: the key shift

58:20 - The myth of compromise in healthy relationships

63:00 - How to "earn your exit" from a relationship

70:00 - The engineering of relationship breakdown through social media

78:00 - The power of presence in communication

82:03 - Gift giving and the act vs. the outcome

86:30 - Taking 100% responsibility as the foundation

94:00 - The tetrahedron model: you, other, relationship, and consciousness

98:40 - Understanding willingness in the art of relationship

104:20 - Why some people give up too soon

106:30 - Final thoughts on rebuilding healthy relationships

I hope you enjoy this conversation! When we build stronger relationships, we build stronger families, raise healthier children and have healthier societies. Literally we can change the world in one generation if we focus on ourselves and our families.

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Find Tym:

He is an amazing coach and can offer insight and transformation in your life on many levels.

https://www.tymothyroy.com/ - check him out and book a discovery session

https://gettingrelationshipright.com/ - current and future offerings here

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