I Wish You Knew The Science of Why Men Cheat (And How to Stop)
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Jan 16, 2026 
Dr. Orion Taraban, a licensed psychologist and bestselling author, explores the psychology behind relationships and attachment. He discusses how love-bombing reveals hidden dynamics in dating and why modern courtship often misses the mark. The conversation highlights the neurochemistry of attraction, commitment, and the vital balance needed for long-lasting relationships. With insights on the role of vasopressin and the importance of shared purpose, Dr. Taraban challenges conventional beliefs about monogamy and encourages redefining relationship goals for deeper connections.
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Date With A Long-Term Purpose
- Do view modern dating and courtship goals clearly: use courtship to vet long-term compatibility, not short-term feelings.
- Adam Lane Smith urges prioritizing long-term mission over transient emotional games.
Purpose Anchors Attraction
- Attraction (dopamine/oxytocin) fades if unsupported by commitment (vasopressin/serotonin).
- Adam Lane Smith recommends building purposeful shared challenges to sustain long-term loyalty.
Monogamy Sits On A Spectrum
- Monogamy may sit on a biological spectrum rather than being universal.
- Orion Taraban argues humans vary along a monogamy-promiscuity continuum and it's not simply 'natural' for all.
