The Daily Dad Worry Is Not Love
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May 4, 2026 Short, punchy take on how worry masquerades as care and often hurts kids more than it helps. Concrete examples of loving actions are highlighted, like presence, encouragement, and real connection. A clear push to own your anxiety and replace control with supportive parenting practices.
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Worry Feels Like Love But Isn't
- Worry often feels like love but does not function as a loving action for children.
- Ryan Holiday argues love should be encouragement, presence, and support rather than anxiety or control that burdens kids.
Replace Worry With Presence
- Stop using your anxiety as a tool to manage your kids; focus on giving them what they actually need: love and presence.
- Avoid calling or micromanaging them; replace worry-driven actions with supportive routines like shared dinners.
Concrete Actions That Actually Show Love
- Love manifests as concrete behaviors: encouragement, appreciation, presence, and connection.
- Ryan Holiday contrasts these with counterproductive behaviors like controlling, guilt, or constant checking that harm relationships.