
Negotiate Anything Yes, Your Influence Strategy IS Costing You Money!
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Jan 8, 2026 Amri Ramban, a mechanical engineer and advocate for BIPOC women in STEM, teams up with Jay Davis, Vice President at the Port of Cleveland, and J, a creator and podcaster. They delve into the subconscious ways professionals diminish their value before negotiations. Amri shares insights on building influence and relationships without authority. Jay emphasizes the importance of vulnerability and authentic communication in leadership. J discusses audience-driven monetization strategies. Together, they redefine negotiation as an ongoing dialogue, urging listeners to claim their worth confidently.
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Nurture Relationships, Offer Value
- Nurture relationships rather than checkbox networking and find ways to give value to senior people.
- Don’t assume you have nothing to offer; new perspectives are valuable to leaders.
Pre-Position And Map Decision Power
- Prepare stakeholders long before the ask so the conversation isn't surprising or off-the-cuff.
- Understand your manager's actual decision authority and map other stakeholders who must sign off.
A Wife's Tough Truth Changed Direction
- Jay Davis recalled his wife telling him “what got you here won't get you to the next level.”
- That feedback forced him to shift from doer skill to leadership and vulnerability.




