Sexy Marriage Radio Episode 62: Getting in the zone for lovers
Dec 19, 2012
This episode of the podcast discusses anxiety and its impact on intimacy. It explores the need for unconditional love, finding balance between control and surrender, and the importance of being present in the moment. Effective communication and personal development in relationships are also emphasized.
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Long-Term Relationship Anxiety
- Dr. Corey Allen describes feeling anxiety making a move with his long-term partner despite 19.5 years together.
- He often misses windows because he gets caught up in his head and the moment passes.
Anxiety Reflects Fear Of Rejection
- The hosts frame much emotional struggle under the label of anxiety tied to fear of rejection.
- They argue vulnerability in sex mirrors vulnerability in life, so patterns repeat across contexts.
Process Over Outcome
- Focusing on outcomes destroys flow; focusing on process creates the zone.
- Trying to control external factors signals an inability to control oneself.