Fail Better with David Duchovny

Fail Again: Kumail Nanjiani’s New Ambition

Feb 24, 2026
Kumail Nanjiani, comedian, actor and writer best known for Silicon Valley and The Big Sick, shares personal transformations. He recalls discovering The X-Files, reframing ambition and mortality, choosing experience over outcomes, and finding joy on big sets like Eternals. He also talks about marriage, emotional masculinity, shame, and seeking new creative challenges.
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ANECDOTE

Family Took Time To See Kumail's Work

  • Kumail's parents were slow to appreciate his career in comedy and acting because it seemed impractical to them.
  • His mother once loudly shrieked on The Big Sick set, revealing a real-life moment had been written into the film.
INSIGHT

Creativity Fueled By Loss Of Academic Identity

  • Kumail traced his creative drive to losing the structured identity of being a good student after college and fearing a meaningless life.
  • That fear of mortality pushed him to want to leave a lasting mark through creative work.
ADVICE

Choose Work For The Experience Not Predictions

  • Do choose projects for the experience rather than predictable success because outcomes are uncontrollable.
  • Kumail now accepts roles he loves and values who he works with even if a project might not be widely seen.
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