Family Secrets Candy Bones
Jul 11, 2024
Reed Harkness, a Portland-based filmmaker, grew up with a camera in hand, using it to document his family's struggle following his mother's mysterious disappearance. In an emotional journey, he discusses how filmmaking became a means for him and his brother to cope with grief and seek answers. The podcast dives into their contrasting approaches to loss, the complexities of family dynamics, and the quest for identity through storytelling. Reed also reflects on the importance of open dialogue in healing family wounds, inviting listeners to explore their own family secrets.
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Joyce's Disappearance and Family Silence
- Joyce disappeared when Sam was 13, creating a taboo family silence.
- The family struggled with discomfort and pain but avoided discussing her absence openly.
The Contagion of Silence
- Silence about difficult issues became contagious in the family, especially influenced by the father's reluctance to address them.
- The pattern of not directly confronting problems led to emotional distancing and discomfort.
From Film Idea to Road Trip
- During a Christmas sledding trip, Reed and Sam discussed a film idea about Sam's alter ego searching for his mother.
- This led to their decision to embark on a real road trip to try to find Joyce.
