The Place We Find Ourselves

95 Engaging With Someone Who Has Harmed You Part 3

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Aug 2, 2021
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INSIGHT

Start By Identifying Their Willingness To Repent

  • Adam Young argues the first step is identifying whether the person is a normal sinner willing to hear and repent.
  • If they are willing, simply telling them how you were hurt invites repentance and repair.
INSIGHT

Love Always Disrupts The Status Quo

  • Love always disrupts the status quo and forces change in relational dynamics.
  • When one person changes, the whole family system must rebalance and the relationship will look different.
ADVICE

Act To Change Stagnant Relationships

  • If your relationship looks the same after years, you've likely failed to truly love because love effects change.
  • Do something different that intentionally disrupts the relational pattern to invite a new balance.
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