
The Edit Alaverdyan Podcast Erica Komisar | Negative Impact of Daycare, Importance of Motherhood | The Edit Alaverdyan Podcast #35
Oct 17, 2024
Erica Komisar, a licensed clinical social worker and author who wrote Being There, argues for parental presence in early years. She discusses how cultural shifts and daycare norms affect attachment and child development. Short takes cover differing impacts on boys and girls, stress buffering by caregivers, and practical caregiving alternatives.
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Material Success Replaced Joy Of Caregiving
- Modern culture elevated material and career success above relational parenting and made caregiving feel less meaningful.
- Erica Komisar links three generations' decreased experience of being 'given to' with rising resentment toward dependency and reduced joy in giving.
Daycare Myth Rooted In Political Agendas
- Daycare became normalized by feminist and capitalist agendas that framed institutional care as beneficial for children.
- Komisar calls this a myth and says long separations from parents during early years were experimentally shown to harm attachment.
Daycare Activates Stress Systems In Babies
- Institutional daycare raises young children's cortisol and activates stress-regulation systems that should remain offline early in life.
- Komisar links early daycare exposure to later aggression, distractibility, depression, and anxiety.




