Theology in the Raw Can You Welcome LGBTQ People While Holding a Traditional Sexual Ethic? Tony Scarcello
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Apr 2, 2026 Tony Scarcello, pastor of discipleship and author focused on ministry to LGBTQ people. He shares his journey from deconstruction back to orthodox faith. Conversations cover pastoral practices for hospitable non-affirming inclusion, sharing personal sexuality in ministry, mistakes with trans youth, counseling parents of LGBTQ kids, and calls for church repentance and depoliticized, relational care.
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Fired After Coming Out As A Youth Pastor
- Tony recounts being a youth pastor who hid same-sex attraction, then was confronted and fired after a counselor was told.
- The church put him through a year of reparative-style therapy that produced shame, depression, and anger toward God.
Traditional Ethics Plus Radical Hospitality
- Churches can hold a traditional sexual ethic while practicing radical hospitality and peacemaking.
- Tony warns politicized culture wars scare spiritually curious LGBTQ people away, so calm, reconciling posture matters more than winning arguments.
Be Clear About Boundaries And Still Invite In
- Do state clear theological boundaries while offering safe access to worship and participation.
- Tony practiced explicit non-affirming clarity (no officiating same-sex weddings) while inviting curious LGBTQ people to belong and serve.
