Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Navigating High Conflict Divorce With A Narcissist | Rerelease

Feb 5, 2026
Jody Willson Pasicznyk, a former attorney turned high-conflict divorce coach, guides listeners through litigation with personality-disordered exes. She covers why such people thrive in court, attorney selection and communication, when mediation breaks down, negotiation tactics, coaching to protect credibility, and practical strategies for lifelong co-parenting.
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INSIGHT

High-Conflict Often Means One Aggressor

  • High-conflict divorce usually involves one very high-conflict person rather than two equally abusive people.
  • Courts often lump both parties together and apply blunt solutions that can punish the target of abuse.
INSIGHT

Charm And 'Provoke And Blame' In Court

  • Narcissists use charm and 'provoke and blame' to make targets look unstable in court.
  • Judges receive limited snippets and often cannot or will not parse who is the real aggressor.
ADVICE

Choose Lawyers Who Get Personality Disorders

  • Find a family-law attorney who understands mental health and high-conflict dynamics before hiring.
  • Ask attorneys about negotiation strategies and avoid relying on mediation with narcissists.
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