
Man Within Podcast 1108 - Murray & Ash Smith: "This Is Why You Feel Lonely (Even Around People)"
Mar 16, 2026
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How A Family's Hospitality Sparked Faith
- Murray and Ash met in St. Catharines when Murray was a teaching practicum and Ash was a gap-year coach, and their relationship grew through mutual invitations into family life.
- Murray fell in love with Jesus via a family's hospitality, babysitting, shared meals, and being invited into their church, which modeled faith as natural and welcoming.
Neighbors Carried Them Through Severe Pregnancy
- During Ash's hyperemesis gravidarum pregnancies, neighbors repeatedly supported them by feeding the family, picking up kids and letting Ash rest on their couch.
- That consistent practical care created a deep bond and became a formative example of how community sustains families in crisis.
Start Small And Pray For Authentic People
- In big cities like Toronto, be intentional: start with staff or acquaintances, treat early meetings like first dates, and choose a few people you can be authentic with.
- Ash prays for people she can be herself with and prioritizes authenticity over polite familiarity to build lasting friendship.



