Become New with John Ortberg

8. What Do I Do with this Anger?

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Jun 23, 2021
Discussion of how anger can twist a desire for justice into revenge. Exploration of when anger is a moral signal and when failing to feel it is wrong. Examination of irritability, overreaction, and long‑nursed resentment. Practical prompting to pause and ask what lies beneath anger — fear, hurt, or control.
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INSIGHT

Anger Is Misguided Love Of Justice

  • Anger is a perverted love of justice that becomes a desire for revenge.
  • John Ortberg explains anger arises when justice is thwarted but often misdirects personal will as if it were God's justice.
ADVICE

Check Whether Your Anger Reflects True Justice

  • Be angry when justice is denied but check whether your anger reflects God's will or merely your desire.
  • Ortberg warns privileged people can sin by not being angry about systemic injustice and also by confusing personal will with true justice.
ANECDOTE

Hot Dog Buns Reveal Larger Fears

  • Steve Martin's Father of the Bride grocery meltdown shows disproportionate anger over trivial injustice.
  • Ortberg uses the hot dog/bun ratio scene to illustrate underlying fears fueling overreactions.
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