'How can one NOT end up in a form of bypass in order to stay in flow? Listener question

Just giving voice to the things I spoke of on today's call multiplied the weight of them.  It really is all a matter of where the attention is directed.  I don't want to give more weight/authority to the story.  I don't really want to pay much attention to the story at all.  Would much rather just be in life and enjoy every minute of it.  So how can one NOT end up in a form of bypass in order to stay in flow?