Psychology In Seattle Podcast Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 11 - Final Clarification)
Dec 16, 2025
Explore the intriguing concept of limerence as Dr. Kirk Honda revises its definition and delves into its complexities. He distinguishes between normal limerence and the pathological kind, highlighting an addictive cycle of craving and withdrawal. Fascinating comparisons illustrate persistent yearning with examples from pop culture, such as Snape’s unrequited love. The discussion sheds light on various limerence phenomena, providing insight into our emotional experiences. Tune in for a thought-provoking examination of love's intense nature!
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Limerence Is Broader Than Romance
- Limerence can be emotional, not only romantic, and includes attraction to mentors or friends.
- Pathological limerence follows an addictive cycle of craving, euphoria, and withdrawal causing ongoing suffering.
Severe Limerence Functions Like Addiction
- Pathological limerence behaves like an addiction that hijacks brain reward systems and repeats highs and crashes.
- Kirk equates severe limerence with person addiction and emphasizes its life-ruining potential.
Normal Limerence Vs Disorder Prevalence
- Many people experience non-pathological limerence or 'normal' crushes without the addictive high-low cycle.
- Bellamy's survey suggests about half are prone to normal limerence and a quarter may develop a disorder.