
Fashion Neurosis with Bella Freud Erin O'Connor
Mar 4, 2026
Erin O'Connor, British supermodel, writer and advocate who founded Model Sanctuary, recalls walking for Alexander McQueen and early backstage rituals. She discusses performing characters to hide shyness, navigating working-class roots and body shame, and using alter egos to manage anxiety. Conversations touch on fashion as art, collaborative craft, and moments of liberation on stage.
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How Playing Characters Protected Her Identity
- Erin O'Connor detached from photographed
Working Class Childhood Fueled Her Ambition
- Erin describes growing up in an Irish Catholic working class family that fostered creativity and ambition despite economic struggle.
- She recalls playing outside until street-lamp curfew, vivid Catholic imagery of the stations of the cross, and sisters inventing stories as performers.
Compliance Became A Survival Strategy
- Erin explains early compliance came from learning that doing as told bought acceptance and safety.
- She connects school rituals like confession to becoming a people-pleaser who suppressed herself to earn belonging.
