Girls Gone Deep 166: What It Really Takes to Be a Good Porn Star, a Good Dom, and Actually Good in Bed feat. Small Hands
What does it actually take to have sex on camera… on command… with a room full of people watching?
In this wildly honest and unexpectedly human episode, Vee and Elle sit down with adult film star Aaron Thompson, better known as Small Hands, to pull back the curtain on what really goes down behind the scenes of porn. From being recruited into the industry by his ex-wife as “free labor” to navigating performance pressure, awkward beginnings, and the mental gymnastics of staying hard under bright lights, Aaron shares it all—no filter.
But this isn’t just about sex on camera. It’s about ego, vulnerability, discipline, and the art of making someone else feel like the star. Aaron opens up about the reality of female pleasure in porn, the difference between performance and intimacy, and why being a great lover has nothing to do with a “technique” and everything to do with presence.
We get into kink, consent, gangbang dynamics, emotional intelligence, erectile dysfunction, and what it actually means to be a good Dom. This episode is raw, hilarious, deeply insightful—and might completely change the way you see porn, sex, and connection.
Chapters
Intros Meet Small Hands: How He Accidentally Became A Porn Actor (00:00)
First Scenes, Nerves, And Barely Getting Through It (05:34)
Why Porn Sex Is Completely Different From Real Sex (7:08)
The Truth About Female Pleasure On Camera (11:06)
The Ridiculous Origin Of “Small Hands” (14:08)
Having An Experience With Two Or More Men? Aarons Reveals Secret To Successful Scene (17:19)
Objectification And Why Porn Is More Collaborative Than You Think (20:45)
Ethical Porn Vs Toxic Porn: What’s Real (28:02)
Sex Skills: Learning From Women (Not Porn) (31:27)
What Makes You Good In Bed ()35:55)
Romantically And Emotionally Monogamous And Sexually Non Monogamous (40:22)
Dating After Porn And Emotional Availability (46:13)
The Wildest Scenes He’s Ever Filmed, Waterboarding, Breath Play (51:27)
Safe Words And Safe Signals In The Adult Film Industry (54:07)
Dog Clickers In Kink (56:42)
Dom Energy Explained And Why It’s Service (58:37)
Erectile Dysfunction And Real Talk About The Mental Game Of Being A Porn Star (01:02:57)
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🔥 Guest: Aaron (“Small Hands”)
- Instagram: @thesmallhands
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