Something You Should Know

The Human Need to Matter & The Enduring Appeal of Cats

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Feb 2, 2026
Jennifer Breheny Wallace, an award-winning journalist on relationships and well-being, and Jerry Moore, an archaeologist who writes about human-animal history, join to discuss why feeling significant matters and how cats became enduring companions. They explore when mattering falters, a simple nightly practice to notice it, cats’ surprising domestication story, ancient bonds, and the signals people often miss.
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ADVICE

Tell People You Rely On Them

  • Signal dependence: tell people you rely on them and why.
  • Simple messages like 'If it weren't for you...' increase others' sense of significance.
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Reconnect By Reaching Out

  • When you feel insignificant, remind someone else why they matter.
  • Open up to one or two people; vulnerability usually brings people closer (the 'beautiful mess' effect).
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Meet One Small Daily Need

  • Counter burnout by meeting one small personal need each day.
  • Daily self-prioritizing restores energy to support others sustainably.
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