Sons of Patriarchy

Christ Church Santa Clarita (Absolutely CHILLING Story)

Jan 29, 2026
Ray Davis, a retired pastor and trauma-informed counselor, offers professional critique. A former deacon who tried to protect children shares his disillusionment. An anonymous son describes church culture and being expelled. An anonymous survivor recounts prolonged domestic abuse and a DCFS investigation. They discuss recorded abuse, leadership denial, safety-team failures, and a culture that prized obedience over protection.
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INSIGHT

Official Messaging Erased Abuse Facts

  • The church's public discipline letter framed the issue as a divorce problem and omitted domestic violence details.
  • That misrepresentation shifted congregational sympathy away from the survivor and protected the abuser.
ANECDOTE

Denominational Leader Dismissed Her Plea

  • The survivor contacted CREC leadership and was told to find a new church and accept the session's handling.
  • The presbytery leader declined to assist and considered the matter closed.
ANECDOTE

Court Orders Issued; Church Disobeyed

  • Dependency court later issued strong protective orders including no-contact against the adult stepdaughter for over 20 incidents.
  • The survivor expected the church to respect court orders but found leaders arranged for the offending stepdaughter to attend services anyway.
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