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How To Process The Grief Of A Late ADHD Diagnosis

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Dec 31, 2025
Kat Brown, an insightful author and advocate for adult ADHD, shares her experiences of late diagnosis and its profound impact on her life. She reflects on her childhood feelings of difference, the complexities of masking, and how rejection sensitive dysphoria shaped her emotional landscape. Kat offers practical coping strategies and discusses the challenges women face in ADHD recognition. She emphasizes the importance of self-identity, explores the role of social interactions, and encourages listeners with a heartfelt letter to their younger selves.
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ANECDOTE

Career Mistake Triggered Deep Panic

  • Kat shares a workplace panic when she recorded over an exclusive Patrick Stewart interview and cried into her pillow.
  • That error triggered an overwhelming sense that her worth had vanished despite the mistake's reality.
ADVICE

Plan Energy, Use HALT And Trigger Stacking

  • Use routines and tools to reduce trigger stacking and preserve energy for important events.
  • Kat practices HALT and plans quiet nights to recharge before social commitments.
INSIGHT

Alcohol Can Mask Social Anxiety

  • Quitting alcohol forced Kat to confront social anxiety she previously masked with drinking.
  • She realised most people are focused on themselves, which was liberating in social situations.
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