People not interested in what I have to say: Listener question

 I know the theme of others not being interested in what I have to say (for example) is present/recurring but I can't find a feeling in my body when I attempt to sit with this.  If I think I about it, really try to bring it to mind and make it matter in the moment, I can cry perhaps, but then it's the feeling of crying.  Does it take practice for a localised sensation to become clear maybe?