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How to Feel your Feelings: Step-by-Step Exercise and full debrief w/ Thomas McConkie, Mindfulness

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Sep 12, 2025
Thomas McConkie, a mindfulness instructor specializing in embodied experience, shares insights on navigating uncomfortable emotions. He guides listeners through a transformative meditation exercise designed to create space for all feelings, fostering self-awareness and emotional regulation. The discussion emphasizes the importance of embracing the full spectrum of emotions, from despair to joy, and highlights the connection between bodily sensations and emotional experiences. Listeners learn techniques to respond wisely and cultivate emotional intelligence, promoting resilience and healthier relationships.
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ADVICE

Name Sensations, Not Stories

  • Call up a recent disturbing encounter if you don't already feel sensation.
  • Describe raw physical sensations with one or two words and avoid emotional stories.
INSIGHT

Presence Often Metabolizes Intensity

  • Letting awareness soak into sensation often melts intensity without doing anything to fix it.
  • Committing to 'feeling this on and off for life' can free you from the fantasy of permanent relief.
ADVICE

Differentiate Danger From Disturbance

  • Ask whether the bodily signal indicates real danger and act to protect yourself if it does.
  • If no immediate danger exists, stay present and allow the sensation to run its course.
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