
Makes Milk with Emma Pickett: breastfeeding from the beginning to the end Weaning Q&A with Carly from Seed Pod, Part 1
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Oct 20, 2025 Carly Facius, a Midwife and IBCLC parenting mentor, shares her expertise on weaning and mindful transitions. She offers insightful advice on weaning a toddler while tandem feeding and handling night-time feeds during pregnancy. Carly emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries and addressing family dynamics while honoring each child's needs. They also discuss strategies for supporting neurodiverse children during this transition. With a focus on connection and respect, Carly's approach helps parents navigate the often complicated journey of ending breastfeeding.
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Use Lying-Down Connection Games
- Use low-energy 'lying down' connection games and power-reversal play when pregnant and exhausted.
- Let the toddler lead short, restful interactions so you can co-regulate without high energy.
Keep One Feed And Use A Social Story
- Identify the least critical feed and keep it while phasing others out, using social stories to explain changes.
- Mark the ending with a small ceremony or token to help both child and parent say goodbye.
Parental Feelings Drive Continued Feeds
- Parents often prolong feeds because they fear big feelings or loss of connection more than the child's needs.
- Clarifying your own reasons and feelings is essential to hold boundaries confidently.


