
Confident At Work 166. Why I Want You to F Up While You’re Building Confidence at Work
Dec 8, 2025
They argue that perfectionism backfires and chasing 100% correctness destroys workplace confidence. They explore why mistakes feel threatening and how new roles raise error risk. They spotlight tolerating mistakes as the practical skill to stay steady, learn, fix what matters, and keep moving forward.
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Confidence Can't Depend On Perfection
- Confidence that depends on everything going right is fragile and unsustainable.
- Building lasting confidence requires tolerating inevitable mistakes and setbacks.
Practice Tolerating Mistakes
- Build the skill of tolerating getting something wrong instead of trying to be perfect 100% of the time.
- Learn from errors, fix what you can, accept what you can't, and move on to preserve confidence.
Learning Through Early Business Mistakes
- Anna Manning shares that she learned tolerating mistakes the hard way through her own career and early business years.
- Early business ownership forced her to accept errors while she learned and adapted on the fly.
