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Face Your Current Mate Value
- Be honest about your current mate value and adjust expectations accordingly instead of chasing a do-over from your 20s.
- If local options are limited, either relax criteria (e.g., accept divorced women or stepchildren) or move to a different city.
Do-Over Desires Hurt Clarity
- Many 40-something men seek a 'do-over' and miss that their realistic pool is different now.
- Happiness comes from finding someone suited to your current life, not recreating a past fantasy.
Divorced 28-Year-Olds Expand Your Pool
- Tucker illustrates by imagining divorced 28-year-olds with kids being abundant if you accept divorced partners.
- He contrasts that with the scarcity of untouched 24-year-olds in many markets like Oklahoma City.