Shameless Sex

#480 The Sex Party Insider with Emma Sayle

Apr 7, 2026
Emma Sayle, founder of Killing Kittens and creator of luxe women-centered parties, cruises, and retreats. She talks about what makes these immersive experiences alluring. Conversations cover differences between parties, cruises, and retreats. Practical tips on etiquette, consent, privacy, and how the events foster empowerment and community.
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ADVICE

Have Curious Calm Conversations About Lost Desire

  • Do approach late conversations about decades-long sexual changes with curiosity, not accusation, and ask permission to talk when both are calm.
  • Amy and April recommend asking about hormones, relationship factors, and proposing sex-specialist therapy if needed.
ANECDOTE

How Killing Kittens Got Its Name

  • Emma told the naming story: 'killing kittens' came from dark British satire meaning masturbation.
  • She kept the double K branding despite some Americans finding the name shocking or offensive.
INSIGHT

Killing Kittens Origin Story And Mission

  • Emma Sayle framed Killing Kittens as creating the world she wished she’d lived in, flipping power so women make first moves and control invitations.
  • She launched KK from anger at double standards, scaling from 50-person parties to a 200k community over 21 years.
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