Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Feeling Like a Burden

Aug 23, 2024
Explore the weight of perceived burdensomeness and its impact on mental health. Delve into the structured models of suicidal thoughts and the significance of social connections. Discover the healing power of unconditional belongingness and committed relationships. Personal stories highlight challenges in managing emotional strain, especially around adolescent struggles. Lastly, a deep reflection on 'The Giving Tree' offers insights into boundaries and the complexities of giving in familial relationships.
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INSIGHT

Burden Feels Real Even If It's Not

  • Perceived burdensomeness often overlaps with thwarted belongingness and can be treated as a subset of it.
  • People commonly feel they're a burden though others rarely actually view them that way.
INSIGHT

Admit The Burden To Build Trust

  • Honest acknowledgment of being a burden can build trust more than denial.
  • Saying "you are a burden now, and that's okay" normalizes support as mutual life currency.
ADVICE

Limit Means During High-Risk Moments

  • Reduce access to means as a crucial safety step during spikes in suicidal intent.
  • Use safety planning to remove convenient methods and delay impulsive attempts.
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