Meditative Story

Acting as if you are bold, by A.J. Jacobs

Dec 17, 2019
A.J. Jacobs, author and immersive journalist known for curiosity-driven experiments, recounts his surprising day on The Oprah Winfrey Show. He describes prepping trivia, backstage nerves, and the moment he chose to act bold and crack a joke. The story explores how risk, humor, and simple humanity can quickly build rapport and change a tense encounter.
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ANECDOTE

Preparing Feverishly For Oprah

  • A.J. Jacobs got invited to pitch trivia for an Oprah episode and spent days feverishly compiling facts from the Encyclopedia Britannica.
  • He tailored facts to Oprah (e.g., dogs loving window smells) and obsessed over details like wardrobe and whether to wear a tie.
ANECDOTE

Green Room Nerves Under Hot Lights

  • On set in Chicago A.J. sat in the green room, felt immense pressure under hot lights, and watched Oprah command the studio with a no-nonsense professionalism.
  • He practiced lines in the bathroom and described his mouth as dry as the Atacama Desert before going live.
ADVICE

Act As If You Are Bold

  • Act as if you're bold to break tension in high-stakes moments by consciously taking on confident behavior.
  • A.J. waved his hand and pretended an odor, jokingly saying "Oof, Oprah, that was silent but deadly," which made Oprah laugh and changed the dynamic.
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