Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories

Solo Hotwife Play Date

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Jul 30, 2025
A behind-the-scenes recount of arranging a solo hotel play date, from lingerie mishaps to pre-date nerves. They talk about including a partner from afar, vetting a one-time playmate, and the logistics of long, sweaty encounters. The conversation also covers ben wa balls, playful tasks, and the tricky boundaries of controlled solo play.
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ANECDOTE

Quick Vetting Led To A Solo Date

  • Cate describes finding and vetting the single guy quickly with minimal screening and booking a solo hotel meet.
  • She felt flirting anxiety but proceeded after a prior date and kiss left them open to play.
ADVICE

Include Partner In Pre-Play Setup

  • Include your partner in pre-play rituals to build shared excitement and mental imagery.
  • Have them pick outfits, set the room, or pack toys so they feel involved without controlling the scene.
INSIGHT

Inclusion Is Positive, Not Controlling

  • Daryl frames inclusion as imaginative participation, not control or jealousy.
  • Positive inclusion fuels compersion and lets his imagination fill in erotic details.
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