Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

How to Speak the Love Language Your Spouse Needs Most (Part 1 of 2)

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Feb 12, 2026
Dr. Gary Chapman, pastor and author of The Five Love Languages; Les Parrott, clinical psychologist and bestselling marriage author; and Leslie Parrott, marriage therapist and researcher. They explore identifying a spouse’s primary love language, the subtle dialects within each language, and practical ways to become intentional, curious, and authentic in expressing love.
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ANECDOTE

Meeting On A Ski Slope

  • Les and Leslie first met as teenagers on a ski slope during a youth trip.
  • That early meeting launched a lifelong relationship and partnership.
INSIGHT

Why Love Efforts Often Miss The Mark

  • Couples often sincerely try to love but the other person still doesn't feel loved.
  • Gary Chapman found five recurring emotional needs that explain this mismatch.
ADVICE

Learn The Five Primary Languages

  • Learn the five primary love languages: words, acts, gifts, time, touch.
  • Use that knowledge to tailor how you regularly express love to your spouse.
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