The Mating Grounds Podcast Helping Joe, Episode 29 Part 2
Aug 31, 2015
Joe shares an interaction with two girls and his fear of women. They discuss the misconception of needing to be perfect in dating. They explore the importance of feeling good over looking cool. The hosts address self-absorption and narcissism. They also talk about handling conflict and personal growth.
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Missed Opportunity With Strangers
- Joe was approached by two girls who asked to take a picture, and he froze and only agreed without engaging.
- He left afterward frustrated that he didn’t get their numbers or even ask why they wanted the photo.
Ask A Simple Question Immediately
- When strangers approach, ask simple questions like “What do you want a picture for?” to engage and learn.
- Use light humor or curiosity instead of freezing to turn random interactions into opportunities.
Bring Five Change Targets Next Week
- Identify five specific thoughts or behaviors you want to change before the next session.
- Use those items as concrete targets for investigation and improvement.