BibleThinker How Far is Too Far for Pastors?: 10 Qs with Mike Winger (Ep 70)
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Feb 20, 2026 A live Q&A dives into 'man of God syndrome' and tactics of authoritarian church leadership. Conversations cover how toxic leadership affects families, loyalty tests, and cover-ups. Practical options for staying in or leaving unhealthy churches are discussed. The stream also touches on evangelism when people refuse rescue, baptism and membership practices, and a light Lord of the Rings pick at the end.
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Handle Family Splits With Honest Outreach
- If family cuts you off over ministry disputes, ask: 'Am I doing all I can to seek peace?'
- Mike Winger advises honest outreach and, if appropriate, confrontation to pursue reconciliation as far as possible.
Options If Your Church Lacks Accountability
- Try multiple options when your only local church is unhealthy: stay and serve, confront leaders, create a home fellowship, or start a new congregation.
- Mike cautions tyranny can appear in any size group and urges careful assessment of safety and discipleship needs.
Know When To Move On Evangelistically
- If someone utterly rejects the gospel, 'shake the dust off your feet' and move on.
- Mike Winger says stop exhausting yourself on the impervious and invest your efforts where people respond.