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Why selfies harm your happiness

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Apr 22, 2026
Nick Epley, social psychologist and author of A Little More Social, studies how tiny social choices shape happiness. He explains starting small with rituals like a ‘hello walk’. He discusses why small talk stalls and how to prompt deeper conversations. He also recommends asking for help instead of taking selfies and shows how small acts of kindness boost mood and workplace culture.
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ANECDOTE

Nick's Harper Center Hello Walk

  • Nick Epley describes his 'hello walk' at Chicago's Harper Center where he greets colleagues during a 200-yard commute.
  • The brief daily greetings made his arrival happier without costing extra time.
INSIGHT

Social Moments Boost Mood Across Personalities

  • Interacting with others reliably increases momentary positive affect compared with being alone.
  • Epley cites personality studies and daily time-use data showing social activities beat solitary tasks for mood across extroverts and introverts.
INSIGHT

Everything Is Better With Others

  • Nearly every activity is experienced as better when done with others, including chores.
  • Epley references a time-use paper (co-authored by Elizabeth Dunn) showing activities like housework feel more positive when shared.
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