Modern Wisdom #713 - Rob Henderson - Why Is Everyone Acting Like A Victim?
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Nov 30, 2023 
Rob Henderson, a PhD candidate at Cambridge and US Air Force veteran, dives into the psychology behind social behavior and perception. He discusses the friendship paradox and its surprising effects on our social lives. Rob explores how social media fosters feelings of isolation, despite its illusion of connectivity, and the dynamics of male friendships. He dives into the challenges faced by foster youth and addresses modern dating ideologies, particularly around political beliefs. Additionally, he shares insights on resilience and the importance of documenting personal struggles.
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Digital Leprosy
- Sam Harris practices "digital leprosy," abstaining from social media to avoid online negativity.
- He avoids screenshots and discussions about online comments, allowing him to exist blissfully unaware.
Young Male Syndrome
- Young male syndrome describes traits like risk-taking and reduced self-control in young men, typically peaking around age 19.
- This manifests across cultures in behaviors like criminality, risky driving, and even punching walls.
Male Sedation Hypothesis
- Technology, including video games and pornography, may be sedating young men's natural drives.
- This could explain why incel violence hasn't increased despite widespread online anger.
