The Mating Grounds Podcast The Mate Preview, Pt. 15: Aesthetic Proof And Sense Of Style
Aug 19, 2015
The hosts discuss how men evolved to show off to women and explain how women look at aesthetics and cleanliness. They provide tips on building attractive skills and investing in good style without following awful fads. The significance of style beyond fashion trends is explored, debunking stereotypes. The importance of taste, thoughtfulness, grooming, and personal care in attracting women is emphasized. Dressing well, clothing fit, and cleanliness are discussed as crucial factors in attracting women.
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Ornamentation Is An Ancient Male Signal
- Male animals evolved ornamentation to signal attractiveness to females across deep time.
- Men still invest in aesthetic lifestyle signals like cars and houses to appeal to women.
Choose Classic Taste Over Fads
- Avoid chasing transient fashion fads that exist to extract your money.
- Focus on classic styles and taste that have appealed to women for decades and buy them cheaply.
Develop Visible Creative Skills
- Build aesthetic skills that display creativity like dance, music, or craftsmanship.
- Pick modalities you enjoy because competence in them strongly attracts women.