The Splendid Table: Conversations & Recipes For Curious Cooks & Eaters Bonus Episode: Do Holidays Leave You Exhausted, Not Restored? Priya Parker, Francis Lam & Kate Bowler on Celebration
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Dec 2, 2025 
Join Priya Parker, author of The Art of Gathering, as she shares insights on creating meaningful celebrations. Food expert Francis Lam explores the emotional weight of culinary traditions, and shares his family's dumpling making ritual. Author Kate Bowler offers wisdom on navigating grief during holidays and suggests small rituals to honor mixed emotions. Together, they reveal how to transform gatherings into intentional experiences, emphasizing connection and shared contributions like playful desserts and communal cooking.
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Make Room For Grief
- Allow space for grief and mixed emotions during holidays; name that intention ahead of time.
- Create small rituals (fire, silence, stocking notes) to hold absence without derailing the whole event.
Burning The Bad Card
- A family lit a backyard fire, burned an insensitive bereavement card, laughed, cried, and roasted marshmallows.
- That off-script moment became cathartic and helped them grieve together.
Use A Shared Playlist
- Ask guests to contribute a playlist of songs that evoke the feelings you want for the meal.
- Play those songs to create a shared soundtrack that invites storytelling and connection.
