What if the key to becoming a better man… was understanding women?

In this powerful conversation, grief and transformation expert Joshua Wenner shares what years of men's work couldn't teach him — and what he only discovered after stepping into a space he never expected to lead: women's healing.

Joshua spent a decade helping men process grief, reclaim their power, and reconnect with purpose. But it was through coaching women, witnessing their wounds, and helping them heal their relationships with men that he gained a deeper understanding of what it means to be truly integrated as a man.

In this episode, we talk about:

The difference between men's and women's work — and why both matter
How unhealed father wounds shape how women see men (and how men see themselves)
The "Nice Guy vs Savage" trap and what real masculine power looks like
How trust between men is broken — and how to rebuild it
Why many successful men still feel alone, guarded, and disconnected
What healthy partnership actually requires — and how we change the family system from the inside out

Whether you're deep in your own work or just beginning to ask the big questions, this episode will expand your view of what healing looks like — and remind you that real power starts with presence.

Phill Schwartz - 10th Planet Portland Black Belt