AI Snips
Chapters
Transcript
Episode notes
Origin Story Of The 'West Elm Caleb' Meme
- Mimi Shoo posted a TikTok about being ghosted by a man named Caleb and other women joined with similar stories.
- They revealed his Hinge profile and labeled him a serial gaslighter, which sparked wider attention and outrage.
Doxing As Crowd-Enforced Accountability
- The hosts note that doxxing became the crowd's chosen punishment after personal accounts circulated and Caleb's profiles were scrubbed.
- They argue public exposure was used as moral retribution when direct accountability felt impossible.
Make Screenshotting Safer On Dating Apps
- The 2017 study suggests dating apps should add built-in, temporary profile sharing among friends and screenshot alerts.
- These features balance safety-sharing with reducing potential public humiliation from screenshots.


