
Stompcast Pt 2: How to Stop Planning Your Life and Start Living It | Oliver Burkeman
Feb 3, 2026
Oliver Burkeman, author and journalist who writes about time, productivity and meaning. He explains meditation as presence, shows how short phrases can ground us, and argues acceptance lets you put down burdens. He reflects on parenthood, city life’s productivity trap, and why tiny imperfect steps often beat grand plans.
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Meditation As Clear Observation
- Meditation is about observing thoughts and feelings rather than achieving a particular state.
- Presence means being with whatever arises, even boredom or discomfort.
Power Of Compact Phrases
- Short loaded phrases can shock you into seeing the moment differently and change your behaviour.
- Words from the past carry extra weight and can ground you amid emotional storms.
Acceptance Includes Non-Acceptance
- Accepting reality isn't about forcing yourself to feel different; it's seeing reality already is as it is.
- You can accept your non-acceptance as part of being finite and limited.







