All Ears English Podcast

AEE 1212: Not to Sound Bossy, But You Should Think Twice Before Using This Phrase

Aug 21, 2019
Explore how preemptive phrases like 'not to get political' can escalate discomfort in discussions. Dive into the nuances of softening criticism with common phrases and their often negative implications. Discover the cultural significance of phrases like 'having said that,' and the impact of context on communication. The episode highlights the importance of careful language when addressing sensitive topics, urging listeners to refine their vocabulary for better understanding.
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ANECDOTE

Ironic Preface

  • Michelle recounts a conversation with a friend who expressed differing political views.
  • The friend prefaced a political statement with "not to get political," highlighting the ironic use of the phrase.
INSIGHT

Signaling a Sensitive Subject

  • The phrase "not to get [topic]" often precedes discussion of that exact topic.
  • It signals an intention to discuss a potentially sensitive subject.
ADVICE

Priming Your Brain for Listening

  • Listeners can anticipate the upcoming topic when they hear phrases like "not to get..."
  • This "priming" helps listeners understand potentially sensitive topics better.
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