Secrets of Successful Advisors℠ with Ken Haman

Six Big Mistakes that Advisors Make When Working with Ultra High Net Worth Clients – Part 1

Jan 20, 2026
Ken Haman, Managing Director at the AllianceBernstein Advisor Institute and a psychotherapist, shares insights into the unique needs of ultra-high-net-worth clients. He discusses how these clients face identity challenges after wealth events, emphasizing the importance of a purposeful approach rather than just managing assets. Ken highlights common advisor mistakes, such as treating wealth as purely a financial issue, and stresses the need for aligning values and family visions in estate planning. Engaging the next generation in this process is also crucial for maintaining family cohesion.
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INSIGHT

Wealth Triggers An Identity Crisis

  • Ultra-high-net-worth clients face identity and purpose challenges after a liquidity event, not just bigger investment needs.
  • Ken Haman emphasizes that meaning and purpose often outrank portfolio construction for these clients.
ANECDOTE

The 'Now What?' Meeting

  • A young advisor presented an elaborate portfolio to a newly liquid client and focused on proving technical credibility.
  • A seasoned advisor advised starting by asking "now what?" to address the client's deeper emotional needs.
ADVICE

Lead With Values, Then Build Structures

  • Do lead with values, purpose, and a 100-year vision before engaging technical estate and tax planning.
  • Then engage estate attorneys and tax experts to build structures that support that clarified vision.
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