The Mating Grounds Podcast

What Do I Do If The Women I Find Attractive Aren't Into Me?

Nov 13, 2014
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INSIGHT

People Pair Within Their Mate Value

  • People generally match with partners near their own mate value because mating markets sort people efficiently.
  • Tens pair with tens, nines with nines, and cross-level matches are rare without hidden factors.
ANECDOTE

Why Less Attractive Women Approach Early

  • Tucker shares that lower-value women often approach higher-value men early to beat stronger rivals.
  • He admits he'll sometimes go home with a less attractive woman if it's easy and convenient.
ADVICE

Initiate Or Upgrade To Reach Higher

  • If you want higher-value partners, either initiate with them or raise your mate value to match theirs.
  • Work harder to court aspirational partners instead of expecting them to approach you.
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