On Purpose with Jay Shetty

5 Types of People We Are Attracted To & Why They're The Wrong Ones

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Oct 25, 2019
Dive into the intricacies of attraction and discover why you may be drawn to the same relationship types repeatedly. Unpack the allure of 'bad' partners and the impact of childish behaviors on your romantic choices. Gain insights into the psychology behind your attractions, encouraging a shift from surface-level qualities to deeper connections. Reflect on your relationship patterns and learn to identify healthy dynamics versus unhealthy ones, all while fostering self-awareness and personal growth.
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INSIGHT

Bad Boy/Girl Attraction

  • The "bad boy/girl" persona, often portrayed as overly confident or rebellious, can be initially attractive.
  • This attraction stems from the excitement of unpredictability, but it can fade quickly.
INSIGHT

The Childish Partner

  • We may be drawn to "childish" partners who seek attention and support, fulfilling our nurturing side.
  • This dynamic can feel empowering initially, but eventually leads to feeling drained and unequal.
ADVICE

The Reflection

  • Recognize if your partner is a "reflection" of yourself, sharing similar traits and challenges.
  • While initially appealing, this can create ego clashes and difficulties in problem-solving.
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